The Best Sex Positions When Using Sex Toys

Contents

• Laying Back and Letting Go
• The Edge of Glory
• The Standing Ovation
• Knees, Please
• Pillow Talk: Elevating the Experience
• The One-Hand Wonder
• Partnered Play: Adding Toys to the Mix
• Conclusion

Laying Back and Letting Go

Sometimes, the best move is no move at all. Lying on your back is a classic position for a reason—it allows you to fully relax and focus on the sensations the toy is creating. Whether you’re using a wand vibrator, suction toy, or stroker, lying flat can help keep your body loose and your attention entirely on pleasure.

For extra support, try propping yourself up with a pillow or wedge under your hips or back. This not only relieves pressure on your lower body but also adjusts the angle to better target sensitive zones. For example, a slight elevation under the hips can bring a G-spot vibrator into closer contact or make it easier to use a male masturbator comfortably.

The Edge of Glory

Don’t underestimate the power of sitting on the edge of your bed, couch, or even a sturdy chair. This position gives your body stability while giving your toy full access. For penis-owners using strokers or sleeves, sitting upright allows for a natural stroking motion and frees up your other hand for stimulation elsewhere.

It’s also perfect for toys that need a bit of height, such as suction toys like the TENGA VACUUM MAX. The edge allows for easy pelvic movement and makes it easier to grind or rock into the toy. This position can also be a game-changer for people using toys with remote controls, as your body is already in an open, accessible position.

The Standing Ovation

Standing isn’t just for spontaneous sex with your partner—it can be a deeply empowering position when using sex toys. Whether you’re pressing a vibrator against your clitoris, thrusting onto a mounted toy, or angling a stroker just right, standing gives you control and freedom of movement.

To stay comfortable, consider leaning forward onto a wall, counter, or table to take the pressure off your knees and feet. This allows for better balance and lets you focus on rhythm and sensation. For a hands-free twist, try backing up against a wall-mounted toy or one secured to a flat surface. You’d be surprised how powerful a little pressure and positioning can be.

Knees, Please

Kneeling opens up a new world of angles and sensations. It allows you to rock your hips, grind down onto a toy, or change direction easily. On a soft surface like a bed or carpet, kneeling provides just enough give to feel supported but not restricted.

If you’re using a dildo on a suction base or a vibrating wand, kneeling over it can intensify pressure and help maintain a consistent rhythm. For male masturbators, kneeling over a bed edge or pillow can help bring the toy closer to your body, creating a more natural motion without strain.

Pillow Talk: Elevating the Experience

Pillows aren’t just for lounging—they can completely transform your sex toy experience. Strategic pillow placement can elevate your hips, tilt your pelvis, or provide support for side-lying and kneeling positions.

Try using a firm pillow or sex pillow under your lower back to angle a G-spot vibrator toward the G-spot or prostate. If you’re using a sleeve, place a pillow under your knees to reduce strain and keep your hips aligned. And for those experimenting with anal toys, cushions can help relax the body and make insertion more comfortable and enjoyable.

The One-Hand Wonder

Want to go hands-free, or close to it? The side-lying position is one of the most underrated ways to enjoy toys, especially when you want to relax or multitask (no judgment!). Simply lie on your side with a pillow between your knees for support.

This position is ideal for using suction toys, bullet vibes, or any smaller toy that doesn’t require much maneuvering. It’s also great for watching something sexy, reading erotica, or just chilling out. You can even wedge a toy between your legs or against a pillow for a DIY hands-free setup.

Partnered Play: Adding Toys to the Mix

Sex toys aren’t just for solo adventures. They can easily be integrated into partnered play. Positions like missionary, spooning, or doggy-style can be enhanced with the addition of a toy, from clitoral vibrators like the iroha SAKURA to cock rings like the TENGA SVR.

Spooning, for example, allows one partner to reach around and control a toy while staying close to the receiving partner. Missionary offers face-to-face intimacy while leaving room for a partner to incorporate a vibe or stroker. Doggy-style frees up both hands to explore with toys from behind. The key here is communication and experimentation—finding what feels good for both of you and leaning into the shared pleasure.

Conclusion

Every body is different, and so is every toy. What feels incredible for one person may feel awkward or uncomfortable for another. That’s why experimentation is key. Try different positions, different angles, and even different surfaces, such as beds, floors, couches, and chairs. Pay attention to how your body responds, and don’t be afraid to mix things up.

Sometimes, a small change—like a pillow under your back or a slight twist of the hips—can turn a “meh” experience into a mind-blowing one. Make exploration part of the fun, and give yourself (or your partner) permission to play without pressure.

There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to sex toy positions, and that’s the beauty of it. Whether you’re lying down, kneeling, sitting on the edge, or standing tall, the most important thing is comfort and connection with yourself or your partner. Use pillows, surfaces, and angles to your advantage, and never stop exploring. Pleasure is personal, and the best position is the one that makes you feel amazing. So grab your favorite toy—or try something new from TENGA STORE EUROPE—and enjoy the ride.