9 Tips to Make Masturbation More Fun

Masturbation is already great, but why not make it even better? This guide covers simple ways to add excitement, variety, and new sensations to your solo sessions. Whether you’re looking to spice things up or just try something new, the following tips will help make your masturbation routine more fun and fulfilling. Plus, check out why masturbation is good for you to learn more about its health and wellness benefits.

This article explores 9 practical and creative tips to enhance masturbation. Covering everything from changing positions to using lubricants and sex toys, we aim to help you experience stronger orgasms, more intense stimulation, and a deeper understanding of what your body enjoys—whether it’s stimulation around the penis, testicles, or other sensitive areas. Internal links to relevant TENGA products are provided throughout to support your exploration.

Contents

• 1. Set the Scene: The Power of Atmosphere
• 2. Experiment with Speed and Pressure
• 3. Try Different Positions
• 4. Add Lubrication for a Smoother Ride
• 5. Introduce a Toy (or Two)
• 6. Hands-Free Fun
• 7. Switch Up the Routine
• 8. Take Your Time or Tease Yourself
• 9. The Afterglow: Don’t Skip the Aftercare
• Summary

1. Set the Scene: The Power of Atmosphere

Your surroundings can significantly affect your experience. Dim the lights, play sensual music, light a candle — whatever makes you feel relaxed and in the mood. Creating an immersive atmosphere helps you focus on the sensations and prolong the pleasure.

Some even enjoy taking a warm shower beforehand to relax both the mind and muscles. If you're using a sex toy, keeping your environment clean and cozy enhances the overall mood and makes it easier to fully indulge.

2. Experiment with Speed and Pressure

Switching up your rhythm, grip, or pressure can unlock new sensations. Try slow strokes, edging, or holding just before climax. Discover what kind of buildup helps you reach a more intense orgasm, especially when focusing on areas like the penis and testicles.

You can also try using your non-dominant hand or alternate between gentle teasing and firmer stimulation. Whether you're watching porn or exploring new fantasies, listen to your body and observe how it responds to different levels of pressure or speed. Every adjustment could reveal something new about what brings you pleasure.

3. Try Different Positions

Changing positions can offer new perspectives and physical sensations. Stand, lie down, squat, or kneel—each shift in angle can create a fresh feeling and keep your sessions exciting.

You might discover new erogenous zones or angles of stimulation that feel better than your regular routine. Consider incorporating mirrors, different types of seating, or experimenting in the shower for added variety. Comfort is key, so use cushions or blankets if needed.

4. Add Lubrication for a Smoother Ride

Lube enhances comfort and sensation. It reduces friction and adds smoothness that dry hands can't offer. We recommend checking out our TENGA Lotion Series for a variety of water-based options that pair well with all kinds of sex toys.

Water-based lubricants are safe for most toys and easy to clean up. If you want something longer-lasting, silicone-based lubes are another great choice, though they should be avoided with silicone toys. 

5. Introduce a Toy (or Two)

Sex toys can take your solo play to new levels. Whether it's a male masturbator or a vibrating toy, products like our TENGA Masturbators or Male Sex Toys provide a range of options to experiment with.

Toys offer different kinds of stimulation that your hands alone may not provide. From VACUUM CUPs to vibrators to strokers focused on the penis or even testicle stimulation, there’s a lot to explore. Combining a toy with lube and varied pressure can help you discover what kind of climax feels best to you.

6. Hands-Free Fun

Let gravity and creative positioning do some of the work. With a little setup, you can use pillows, furniture, or stable surfaces to simulate hands-free stimulation, freeing you to focus on the feeling rather than the mechanics.

Some sex toys are specifically designed for hands-free use, offering a more immersive experience. Explore adjustable mounts or sleeves that stay in place while you enjoy the ride. This method can also mimic a more realistic or partnered feel.

You can read more about this in the blog "Hands-Free Orgasm: What It Is".

7. Switch Up the Routine

Doing the same thing every time can get repetitive. Mix up the time of day, the environment, or the tools you use. Try something new — even reading erotica, using your imagination or using different kinds of stimulation — to keep things fresh and exciting.

Set small goals or challenges for yourself, such as delaying orgasm for a set amount of time or focusing solely on one part of your body. These shifts can refresh your experience and keep things exciting over time.

8. Take Your Time or Tease Yourself

Don’t rush. Explore edging, which involves bringing yourself close to orgasm and then backing off. Teasing yourself this way builds stronger sensations and a more satisfying climax when you finally let go. Prolonging your session can make the final release feel even more explosive.

You can also experiment with countdowns, stop-start techniques, or simply breathing exercises to increase the intensity. Treat your body like a partner—get to know what builds the most pleasure and let yourself enjoy every second of it.

9. The Afterglow: Don’t Skip the Aftercare

After a good session, take a moment to relax and enjoy the afterglow. Clean up, hydrate, and treat yourself kindly. Aftercare helps make the whole experience feel complete and satisfying.

Use warm water and gentle cleansers for both your body and any sex toys. Follow up with a brief moment of rest or self-appreciation—masturbation isn’t just about climax, but also about self-love and wellness.

Summary

Whether you’re discovering solo pleasure for the first time or looking to refresh your routine, these tips are here to guide and inspire.

Masturbation should never feel like a routine task. It’s an opportunity to explore, indulge, and connect with your body. From adding lube and toys to changing your environment or approach, there are endless ways to keep things exciting.

Listen to what your body wants, try new techniques, and don’t be afraid to step outside your usual habits. Visit our Sex Toys Collection to explore more tools that can take your solo play to the next level and help you reach new heights of pleasure.